Preparation 4 Romantic Relationship: choosing your Partner

• This is a note that I took from my life group this is kind of a good note to be followed.

1.0 Why prepare? (value)

* Improve God relationship

*for future spouse

1.1 Honors God (Genesis 1:26-27 God created man vs women in his likelyness)

1.2 Greater maturity-naturally & spiritually

1.3 A clearer picture of what we are looking for

1.4 Longevity in future relationship

1.5 Preveniton of possible "Heartache"

"Prepare yourselves when you are Single!!"

2.0 How to prepare? (Practical Suggestion)

2.1 Spiritual Growth First

2.1.1 Cultivate a consistent walk with God

" And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,

who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also

predestined to the likenes of his Son, that he might be the first-born among many

brothers." (Romans 8:28-29)

2.2 Charater Growth

2.2.1 Self Leadership/discipline/mastery

2.3 Knowing one's call in life &developing one's ministry

"Do two walk together

unless they have agree to do so?" (Amos 3:3)

2.4 Pray & seek God

2.5 Read books of relationships

2.6 Be accountable

" The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure.

Who can understand it?" (Jeremiah 17:9)

" For lack of guidance a nation falls

but many advisers make victory sure" (Proverb 11:14)

" Plans fail for lack of counsel,

but with many advisers they succeed." (Proverb 15:22)

"Make plans by seeking advice

if you wage war, obtain guidance." (Proverb 20: 18)

2.7 Set a Boy & Girl Friend Relationship criteria

What to look for in my future partner?

1.0 My perspective

1.1 No criteria = No idea

= Meet up ideal partner got away

1.2 Set Criteria = easy, safe

1.3 Word of God's (Genesis 24: 12-14)

Write down your criteria even before entering a relationship

A threesome relationship? Yourself + God + Your Partner

Non-negotiable Criteria

1. Spiritual life - Born again Christian

- Growing Christian
- Maturity

1. Height!! (Important) :p
2. Sharing the same vision
3. Must be intelligent. haha!!

Negotiable Criteria

1. haven't thought about that!! haha! :p

Hope that you can find it useful!! ^-^~~

28th October 2008 Jerry being Holy Spirit Baptisted!!

Hi Again!

These week was an unexpected week I have been through, yesterday I was Holy Baptised in Mater Hill Princess Theatre. I was so happy that I didn't miss this Tuesday prayer meeting. When I and Ting went into the Theatre we started to worship and praise God!! Then, Pastor Wu Nang asked whether any one wanted to be Holy Baptised that night. I was quite shy and uncertain because I am not sure that is it time to receive the Holy Spirit. However, one of my friend, Seya she explained and asked me! I was like "OK, I want it!"(In my heart)

When I and some other friends, walk near the Stage. A lot of our brothers and sister prayed for some of the people who wanted to be Holy Spirit Baptisted. Then, they keep pray for me. I was so nervous that I keep I mouth tight. Then, our sister (CiCi) said "try to keep praying so that the Holy Spirit can flow into your body'" Then I followed her instruction, then I keep praying " I believe in you Lord, I truely want to receive the Holy Spirit." Then I keep repeat and repeat, I started to feel my lungs being heated and my heart jump as I was doing a very active exercise!! Then my tongue started to move by itself, and I didn't know what I am praying. That's because I am praying in new tongues~ Wow!! I successed to received God's Precious Gift!! And I swear to be loyal and have faith to God forever!! But this wasn't the end, I can't stop praying in tongues even when every body was back at their sits. My tongue still move by itself but I didn't make any sound, in case I interupt the chair person and other brothers and sisters. But praise you Lord for giving me the Special Gift, although We humans have sin.

Life of 21st Century~(A bit up set) T-T

HI!HI! Again~

Been along time I didn't update my profile~ Cause I am LAZY~haha!! Not like CKB aways have time go update blog le~ Haiz...Today topic is my opinion of in the 1st Century should we have sex before marriage. My answer is NO!! Yesterday when my friends and I was playing "Dare to Answer" Game. When one of them asked their "21st TIME", then he/she answer "18/19" years old..I was so shock!!! I was struck so hard when my friend said she had sex with her BF~just 2 months ago...But she promised us that she won't do such things before marriage. Well, of corse not only me but another girl's friend of mine. But the boys beside us keep saying~ aI..YA... What century? 21st mah~ Gotta be more Open!

But I really want to ask him, "if your wife has sex with another before marriage, when they got married. Then one day his wife met her ex-BF would they feel embarassing and He get jeolous? Yes, he will!! NO brain 1! I don't know is this opinion is an objection to you all~ But I think having SEX before marriage is not a very good action to do, because it will hurt you, your future partner and family. For example, the scandal of "Chan Guan Xi". Having sex with alot of "STARS" then now, every one have to suffer~ His family, GF, the "STARS" and "STARS" family~ Every bad action would be remembered forever and be punished afterwards~(Rapped not counted lah~!)haha!!^0^

Well, this is why I am busy these days~ I joined the Mentor group with some of my best friends here.. But i joined last semester, so every thing I learn is the same. Know what I joined the program with the "Boy" the one that vandalised my blog~ WoW!! I was shock too~ But I did nothing wrong and my friend said if he dare talk a thing we will help you. Ha! Ha! What good friends I have~ I now going to finish my mid semester break lah~ Next monday is my 1st day of Academic Englsih lesson, after 8 more weeks you can surely see a brand new Jerry! Back at Malaysia~ Miss all of my friends oh~ "muacks"~ Must give comment for my "Sex before marriage" title woh!! I wanted to see who have same opinion as me!

My Best Friend At Brisbane~

Dying To get back to my Family!!!

Haiz~

I am missing my family so much.. What I get here can not be shared with my family. Although I have lot of friends here, but it is still not enought to share my happiness and sadness with my loved one. Yesterday, I had my Maths A2 exam...HAiz~ Don't have time to finish all of my Questions!! But I think I could still get a pass for my Exams!!

NOw, I am worry about my economic exam, because it not the same as Commerce.. Tonight I am going to my church life group...need to cook a dish for them. Well, the thing that I learn here at Brisbane, is independant, improvement in Cooking skills, etc... But however, I want to go back home!!Sad~ Now I know what is my cousin feelimg...Why she want to go back home.... NOw is my turn to surfer this feeling~

I hope that I can get through what I am facing now...Then go SHOPPING!! With my best friends over here...And back to Malaysia with my family!! I wish for nothing more but alittle bit of happiness~ ^-^!!

I Miss My Family!!!

Oct 1 2008

I am still in my final examination period, I am so worry about my economic exam, because I am not very good in Economic and failed twice for it. But if I don't pass this exam I can't come back to Malaysia on time. I hate it!!! I miss my family here...Wanted to cry but I can't make it...Pressure rush to my feeling, that stop me to study...Haiz...When can I come back to Malaysia??

Today, I had my Accounting Exam...When I received my exam paper...There were too many Questions ...But there was only 2hrs for that paper..Beside that, the exam paper has alot of very seriously unlogic question and request...Then almost the how class complain about the problem..The administration of the college helped us to solve the problem as our Accounting Teacher was away..Although the administration gave us 10 more minutes to finish the paper...I mean how can we finish!!! AFTER THE EXAM...All of my classmate did not finish the exam paper..and we wanted to complain to the head of the college....So disappointed!!!

When I come back home to my soundless house...I hate it!!! I want to go back to Malaysia..But when!! God!! Can you give me a way back home!!! When will I be back to Malaysia!!?? Haiz!!! I Miss home so much!! I know that education is important..But family time is also Important!! Man!! there is always satisfication between success in return of some precious things!! Haiz.... Nothing to share this time!! Wish me luck!! Man!! Pray for me to be back on time!!

Love: Jerry!!!